When and as I see myself writing or speaking with OTHER PEOPLE as my main focus, instead of the issue at hand

When and as I see myself either speaking or writing with my focus being the OTHER PEOPLE, I stop, I breathe, because I see/realise the moment my focus is OTHER people, there is the chance my objective is attention seeking, so I stop I breathe. If I am truly looking to support another, either by listening to them or speaking to them, then I direct myself to check within myself that I am not turning support into attention seeking chance. It’s very smart thing to do, “I will help you, so I listen to you, in that I will get your attention. checkmate”.

When and as I see myself writing or speaking with OTHER PEOPLE as my main focus, instead of the issue at hand, I STOP I breathe, because I see/realise when others are MY FOCUS, attention seeking disease is rising up.

When and as I see within myself that I am gearing for attention seeking, I pause, I stop, I breathe, because I see/realise/understand attention seeking is a tiring, exhaustive thing, both for me and others, energy feeding is tiring. So I stop, I breathe.